feat: add signal option to dialog.showMessageBox (#26102)

* mac: add dialog.closeMessageBox API

* win: Implement dialog.closeMessageBox

* mac: Return cancelId with closeMessageBox

* gtk: Implement dialog.closeMessageBox

* win: Fix 32bit build

* win: Reduce the scope of lock

* fix: Build error after rebase

* feat: Use AbortSignal to close message box

* chore: silently handle duplicate ID

* win: Add more notes about the threads

* chore: apply reviews

* fix: base::NoDestructor should be warpped in function

* chore: fix style on windows