Summary:
In https://github.com/th3rdwave/react-native-safe-area-context/issues/448 it was noticed that from 0.72 (https://github.com/facebook/react-native/commit/bc766ec7f8b18ddc0ff72a2fff5783eeeff24857 https://github.com/facebook/react-native/pull/35889) it was possible to get a deadlock in dispatchViewUpdates. ([More details](https://github.com/th3rdwave/react-native-safe-area-context/issues/448#issuecomment-1871155936))

This deadlock resulted in a laggy experience for all users using https://github.com/th3rdwave/react-native-safe-area-context/ on Android.

To avoid this problem, the author of the original fix [proposed](https://github.com/th3rdwave/react-native-safe-area-context/issues/448#issuecomment-1872121172) this solution which was tested by Discord and many other users.

It would be great to have this backported to 0.72 and 0.73 because of the large userbase using react-native-safe-area-context since it's recommended by expo and react-navigation.

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[ANDROID] [FIXED] - Fixed possible deadlock in dispatchViewUpdates

Pull Request resolved: https://github.com/facebook/react-native/pull/43643

Test Plan:
The original memory leak remains fixed, and can be verified in https://github.com/feiyin0719/RNMemoryLeakAndroid.

To verify the deadlock is gone, every app using https://github.com/th3rdwave/react-native-safe-area-context will work smoothly and not log any excessive `Timed out waiting for layout`
(https://github.com/17Amir17/SafeAreaContext)

Reviewed By: arushikesarwani94

Differential Revision: D55339059

Pulled By: zeyap

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